Transforming Your Life One Moment at a Time
Welcome to MOMENT CONNECTIONS!
I hope you are truly enjoying the precious, precious moments of your
life. My life coaching practice is a dream come true. My wish for you is
that you achieve each and every one of your own dreams, while enjoying
the journey along the way.
What exactly is Moment Connections? It is a lifestyle of living in full
engagement. By healing the past, gaining clarity and creating a vision to
fuel excitement about life, you can live fully and deeply in the now -
connected to each precious moment, paradoxically needing nothing to
A way to do this is to understand and embody the energy of the
Authentic-Self (the Soul) and let go of unnecessary suffering and the
hold the "purposeful" ego has on us. A sign that you are living in the
ego is one of exhaustion in life, suffering in any way, or a feeling of
existing and not fully living in enjoyment for the human journey.
When we are tapped in to who we really are we have infinite resources -
infinite energy, time and abundance. But how do we create that type of
life? - and how do we remain connected to it? are the questions that will
help us reveal the answers.
It takes patience, commitment, a true desire and strength of heart to
become empowered and step into the magnificent power that resides
within you to create a fulfilling and present LIFE.
If we look at Marianne Williamson's quote - "Our Deepest Fear" below
we can find that if we truly make the commitment and step into our
power, we have to claim 100% responsibility for our lives with no one to
blame but ourselves if it isn't working out. That is scary for the ego.
The ego LOVES to blame everyone and strives to avoid fear, or
exacerbate it to keep us stuck - but that kind of living is draining and
disempowering because you define yourself by external factors, and if
something doesn't go "right" you aren't right. You get thrashed around
by external circumstances, where you have little or no control and there
is no freedom in living that way.
You deserve to have a full life where you are present and filled with joy
for this amazing human experience - no matter what happens - and that
takes inner work to build a foundation of presence and surrender, which
are keys to true freedom.
If you live in the ego's dominion, you can reach goal after goal after goal
and never feel any better. There is no end to what the ego needs in order
to feel good, to feel like it matters, or to feel like it is worthy.
The true philosophy of Moment Connections is one of full engagement,
while being connected to divine truth, which restores the magic of life
and returns us to the amazing energy of innocence, where anything can
happen - even miracles. You can be fulfilled in the NOW, not after some
goal is achieved.
If you are truly ready and willing to let go and embrace your Authentic-
Self and be authentic, courageous, open and willing, you can transform
and shed layers of inner weight.
When you let go of living in the ego, life will be a much freer, peaceful
and wonderful life. When you integrate your ego and your Authentic-
Self, you will just radiate in the "snowflake essence" that is uniquely you
and embody clear energy .
Change does take time - coaching is not a quick fix. There is an undoing
and detoxification process. Joseph Campell refers to this as "the Hero's
Journey. It takes courage and stamina to let go of what is no longer
serving. If you are truly committed and can surrender control, you will
learn all you need to about yourself and this amazing human experience
so that what appears in our life is seen as a lesson or the Universe
conspiring in YOUR favor, no matter what. You will learn to let LIFE
just be what it is with gratitude even during "challenging" times. How
does that sound? It is possible!
It takes a Spiritual Warrior to do ego work. This is the toughest part of
our journey together if you choose to work with me - I will not enable
egos. I unconditionally love them, understand their motives and tactics
with compassion, but I will not allow yours to get in the way of your
journey to freedom if you choose me as a coach. All of my clients called
to work with me deserve to be called "Spiritual Warriors". This journey
is not for someone who does not thirst for transformation. This journey
is not for those who just want to try something new. This is a journey
your Soul brings you to and where you came to a deep realization that
LIFE, as it is, is currently NOT working.
This passage from John Bradshaw illustrates that we can actually start a
spiritual journey and spiritually bypass the fundamental work that it
takes to transform permanently.
“A lot of people jump into higher consciousness and forget about lower
consciousness. They haven’t done their ego work, the feeling work.
They’re blissed out. It’s just another mood alteration and it’s a hell of a
trip. I did it myself. I was into shamanism, energy healing, spirit
canoes, the whole trip. It became very important for me to realize that
all of that was kind of an intellectual defense – a wonderful mood
alteration, compulsive spirituality. It was a way to stay out of my
feelings. I think all that stuff is really valid, but if you don’t do your ego
work – what I call the original pain work – it will pull you back.”
I look forward to working with you if you are called to do this work. I
can guarantee when you work with me you will be supported, challenged,
stretched and guided, while being shown new and different outside-of-
the-box persepctives to see Truth - all in service to conscious awareness,
shedding the ego and a greater view of life itself.
"The dream begins with a teacher who believes in you, who tugs and
pushes and leads you to the next plateau, sometimes poking you with a
sharp stick called "truth" - Dan Rather
Kimberly Barclay, M.A. Spiritual Psychology
Certified LIFE (Living In Full Engagement) and Career Coach
Inspirational Speaker and Spiritual Mentor
Our Deepest Fear - By Marianne Williamson
Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate.
Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure.
It is our light, not our darkness
That most frightens us.
We ask ourselves
Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, fabulous?
Actually, who are you not to be?
You are a child of God.
Your playing small
Does not serve the world.
There's nothing enlightened about shrinking
So that other people won't feel insecure around you.
We are all meant to shine,
As children do.
We were born to make manifest
The glory of God that is within us.
It's not just in some of us;
It's in everyone.
And as we let our own light shine,
We unconsciously give other people permission to do the same.
As we're liberated from our own fear,
Our presence automatically liberates others.